Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Two Halves Do Not Make A Whole


I hate it when people say how they need to be in a relationship, as if they weren't complete without being romantically attached to someone. You're so young, I want to tell them, you've got your whole life ahead of you. Why put everything on hold to look for someone now?


Relationships are overrated. The media makes sure of it. You'll be hard-pressed to find a movie or show without someone falling in love as the happy ending to whatever was the matter in the first place. Sure there are benefits to being in a relationship but there are definitely benefits to being single as well! Being in a relationship takes a lot of time and hard work, something that's not easy and certainly not all sunshine and lollipops.

So what if you're single? There's certainly nothing wrong with that and don't let anyone tell you there's something wrong with you either. It's a shame how people are so focused on their "other half" before they even try to be complete themselves.

Now don't get me wrong, I am in a committed, loving relationship right now and I'm happy where I am, but I am so glad I learned to be happy single beforehand and I know that if I'm single again I will still be happy. My plan is to get married someday - I already have vague ideas what I want - and I know it will be fantastic. But if I don't, I know for a fact that my quality of life isn't going to diminish any.

The bottom line is: you choose how to experience your own life. If you aren't happy with yourself on your own, you certainly won't be happy with someone else in the picture.

Rant done.

3 comments:

sriniya said...

I totally agree with you.it is up to the individual to make up their decissions.none should interfere in it

Yang Kuo said...

I totally agree with you.it is up to the individual to make up their decissions.none should interfere in it



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